Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow, by Elizabeth Lesser
Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life, by Abigail Trafford
Divorce Poison New and Updated Edition: How to Protect Your Family from Bad-mouthing and Brainwashing, by Dr. Richard A. Warshak
The Good Divorce, by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D.
The Spiritual Divorce, by Debbie Ford
Too Good to Leave/Too Bad to Stay, by Mira Kirshenbaum

Healing After Loss, Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief, by Martha Whitmore Hickman
The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program for Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses, by John W. James and Russell Freidman

Mom's House, Dad's House, by Isolina Ricci
Putting Children First: Proven Parenting Strategies for Helping Children Thrive Through Divorce, by JoAnne Pedro-Carroll
We’re Still Family, by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D.

Self-Esteem/ Personal Development
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie
Codependents’ Guide to the Twelve Steps, by Melody Beattie
Dance of Anger; Dance of Intimacy, by Harriet Goldhur Lerner
Radical Acceptance, by Tara Broch
The Drama of the Gifted Child, by Alice Miller
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing, by Susan Anderson
What I Know To Be True, by Lisa Jacoby and Caroline Temple
You Can Heal Your Life, by Louise Hay

Getting the Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path, by Charlotte Kasl, Ph.D
The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John M. Gottman, PhD and Nan Silver

Battered Wives, by Del Martin
Behind Closed Doors, by Murray A.Strauss, Richard J.Gelles and Suzanne Steinmets
Controlling People, by Patricia Evans
Getting Free: A Handbook for Women in Abusive Relationships, by Ginny McCarthy and Sue Davidson
The Emotionally Abused Woman, by Beverly Enge
The Verbally Abusive Man, Can He Change? By Patricia Evans
The Verbally Abusive Relationship, by Patricia Evans
Women Who Love Too Much, by Robin Norwood
Why Does He Do That?, by Lundy Bancroft

Children of the Self-Absorbed, Nina W. Brown
Disarming the Narcissist, by Wendy Behary, LCSW
Loving the Self-Absorbed, Nina W. Brown
Narcissistic Lovers, by Cynthia Zayn and Kevin Dibble
Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger
The Narcissist You Know, Defending Yourself Against EXTREME NARCISSISTS in an All-About-Me Age by Joseph Burgo, Phd 
The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists,
by Eleanor D. Payson, MSW

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, by Don Miguel Ruiz
True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart, by Thich Nhat Hanh
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times, by Pema Chodron